Quote Originally Posted by AmandaM View Post
If you weren't a crossdresser, would she also be worried that you'd cheat on her, become a drunk, beat her? Have you given her any reason to believe what she believes? Did you tell her you're not sure about being TS? Or you have some feelings toward men?
I have done nothing more than tell her very honestly about my dressing. I think she is just letting her worries get the better of what she feels to be true (that I am being honest).

She has had a friend who experienced this problem in the past. After 10 years of a great marriage with kids her husband "suddenly" (I know not suddenly) decided he wanted to try out men, at which point he left her. As any one can see she took a lot of this to her self.

I know for a fact no one can "decide" what they might have a desire to do in life, BUT we ALL have the option to chose to act. For me I have no desire to be with men, I feel a lot of why i dress is due to my amazement of women. I don't feel awkwardness around or with women, other than being the stupid boy with a crush.

She seems to not want to listen to only me right now, but wants a more "professional" word on the matter (rather than the limited information on line posted by us). She seems to think that some one with a degree and with no actually experience should know better than me. Its hard to understand this, but I must. She is otherwise in every other way an amazing and perfect person and full of love and understanding. Just has lots to work on to understand this, as we all do.


I wonder if that without the dressing would she still have these thoughts? I think not. (I believe some one said that already).

Again thank you all for your input and continued help. If the rest of the world were so kind, it would be heaven.