Quote Originally Posted by Miss Misery View Post
Giorgi,


I'm sorry but this response by your wife is TOO MUCH. I know you say you still love her but her behavior towards you sends a very different message of how she feels about you. IMHO, if your CDing could take her from loving you to whatever it is she feels now (doesn't look nor sound like love to me), she's the one with a problem AND she needs to figure out why she has to get ill at the thought of her husband CDing - OH the drama!

I know you are hurting Giorgi BUT you don't desrve this kind of treatment FROM ANYONE let alone someone who supposedly loved you. Her behavior makes me question where she was really at in the relationship BEFORE you told her.
I really think that the emotional shock Georgi's wife is feeling after 31 years is just too strong at this point to warrant any questioning of whether she loves him. I had a huge argument with a girlfriend of less than 2 years who felt our relationship had been a "lie" because I had held back some things I had been angry about. She got over it. Maybe Georgi's wife will or won't be at least give it some time. 26 days is a drop in the bucket in the course of a 31 year relationship.

We see our CD'ing as normal and everyday behavior. We don't have to look very hard on the rest of the world to realize how little they still now about it. I'm in a graduate level counseling program and you'd be surprised (or maybe not) how little potential counselors know about transgender issues. So I'm simply saying we have to put ourselves in her shoes to realize how unexpected this was and give her (and both of them) some time to work through this. There is no hurry to suggest an end to this marriage.

Quote Originally Posted by docrobbysherry View Post
However, if and when u DON'T, and if u live in SoCal, I've got a terrific divorce attorney for u!:brolleyes:
Can we have a little sensitivity here?