Sorry if this comes across kind of tough, but it is the only way I know of to say these things!
I have no idea how old you are or how long you have been a CD. But I do know one thing for sure! You are a man, and you married your wife as a man! Either you want to be a man and stay married, or you don't! If you really want to be a man, than let her know that!! In every way you can.
I started as a panty wearing CD at age 6. When I first got totally dressed to go out in public I was in my late teens! I knew then that I never wanted to become a woman, and still feel the same way! I told my late wife I was a CD before we married, and she accepted me "as is" with the provision that I always remember that I was her man!! We had almost 50 years together!
If you don't know how you feel, you definitely need to consult a therapist! One who specializes in gender disorder therapy!
BTW, I do agree with Michelle!!
