Michelle, the one thing that has to be the strongest in any marriage is LOVE!! Do you love your wife, and does she love you? If the answer to that question is YES, then why are you contemplating divorce? True love can overcome all kinds of obstacles, if you allow it to. Every marriage has its ups and downs. I was married for almost 50 years before my wife passed away, and we certainly did have some problems!! Not with my being a CD, since she knew about that before we married. But any two people living together are going to have problems. How you solve them without coming to a seperation or divorce is up to you, but it can be done. Maybe it will take time, but that is better then totally splitting up!! I hope the two of you can get back together again!!