Quote Originally Posted by t-girlxsophie View Post
This kind of thing happened at the end of my first marriage,my ex came round to my house and we had a long discussion,plenty questions were asked,actually the sort of questions maybe should have been asked when we were married,we actually had one occasion when she saw me dressed,and we had good conversation together ,but Alas this wasn't to last for as soon as my Son accidentally,found out that I cross dressed,Her understanding disappeared and today,things between us are a little strained,but civil.Maybe once the Intimacy and desires of a relationship have gone,Some folk can stay on good terms with their exes

I think if there's so much as a spark still between you both there is always a chance,with a lot of heart to heart discussion that you can still have a future together.I sincerely hope that is the case.i wish you the very best of luck

Sophie xx
My situation is odd because I had hidden the fact that our youngest son knows about my cd'ing from her. He had never told her until 2 weeks ago. Now she is aware that all of my kids know and realize that I am the same either way. Now none of my kids want to see me dressed but that is ok because they know about me. All of this acceptance happened after she found out that all of my kids know.

I have had a lot of time this weekend to reflect on what happened and I am beginning to believe that everything will lead only to a very strong friendship. I have been separated 8 times from her over the 27 year marriage and I realize that some of the issues why we split up never got fixed. They just got buried deeper only to return many months or years later. I don't think that I can ever turn off the love that I have for her but together we have been pretty miserable for parts of our marriage. The last couple of years have gotten a lot worse. I think that maybe working on the friendship is the best way to deal with this. I have to say that I feel very fortunate that we will end up being so close after our divorce. So many couples end up fighting and never being able to talk peacefully at their children's marriages, holidays and grandkids births and functions with them.