There are lots of men who are sensitive, artistic aesthetes, and there are plenty of women who have all the class and culture of a longshoreman. And both extremes, and everything in-between, are present in TGs as well. Trying to link these qualities with femininity is just perpetuating a stereotype that is largely a cultural construct and, in the end, does nothing to determine whether or not somebody crossdresses, nor to enhance or explain why they do.
