YIkes..... we haven had sex in over 9 years....the last time i wore lingerie and that was the straw that broke the camels back with her. We have approached the subject over the years and fo some reason i am not interested and dont know why. maybe the depression anxiety meds maybe a little bi curious about ********.maybe its a painful reminder that everytime we had it which wasnt much to begin with it always had to be the perfect storm with her..take a shower brush your teeth groom youself and so on...it would take me 20 minutes to get ready to have sex really became not interested so it may be more me that is witholding or not wanting sex. i feel horrible because we always fight about everthing and no sex as my wife says were just roommates
