Okay, I'm going out on a limb with this as there may be some misunderstanding on what the OP was about. Daphne will correct me if I'm wrong...
As much as the replies are true in their own way, I believe what Daphne is trying to say if this statement is read as is:
Some of the responses concerning women and thier reaction to thier partners crossdressing have been mean, others are just silly. (partial qoute from Daphne)
I'm viewing this as how one reacts to 'their SO/wife's response' after they come out or its discovered that dressing is part of the relationship now. Whether its taken as a from of deciet or just plain not what they are attracted to. The response from the cd/ts, etc is what the OP is speaking of..
Its like everyone around us is suppose to be okay with it all..
Its almost as silly when a husband gets upset when a wife reacts to discovering an affair has occured (just using this as an example..k?) Should the husband get angry or be surprised that the wife kicks him out, cusses up a storm, tells the family, etc..etc..??????? NO!
So why does one get upset when an SO/wife/friend/employer makes a discovery, in whatever manner, about one's dressing and reacts negatively?
This is not kumbyah land, we are different people with different understandings and so different reactions.
I do hope I'm right about the OP, if not...then I'll go start a thread to discuss that, as I been finding it as a surprised reaction from some (not all) members here.
Marissa
p.s. my pizza burned
