Many cd groups try to act like TS groups. They think that you need to look like a woman totally.The groups are often led by people who are actually transexuals not crossdressers which is different. I have been members of cd groups and believe me what I am saying is true. If you said you were a transexual and wanted to be a woman. I would say the extra hair should go. Being a crossdresser is not really wanting to be a woman so there is no reason I can think of that removing body hair is needed. Dress the way that makes you happy.