Thanks everyone, so very much for all your responses!
To Sean ... I appreciate your comments as well, but you do seem to lump CDers in the same category, and I believe you are mistaken to do so. Also, I never did say I was talking about myself.
OK Reine.....so are you the wife or the girlfriend in this? Just kidding
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.