2SpeedTranny, no one is saying that it is healthy or even desirable to be with partner who is so mistrustful, he or she always suspects the worst, spies, and demands to know about every contact with another human being. That would be more than excruciatingly stifling.
This isn't the situation in this thread though, and you will see this if you read carefully my several posts describing it.
And the question about having sexually open relationships is an entirely different matter. Some people are OK with this, and no one is saying they shouldn't, as long as they are both on the same page. But again, an openness with having sex with 3rd parties isn't for everyone.
And yes, you are entitled to your opinions.
