Sara,
wow the response to this thread is incredible. I'm sure you have gotten an incredible amount of feedback from everyone.
My only question to you at this point is whether you've told Scott that you've signed up here and whether he's decided to check it out. You might want to caution him in that event because if I were him and I came here and saw this thread, I would Freak!!
Seriously I probably would not like a bunch of people discussed me, or my habits and more importantly my relationship. well maybe that's just me.
Like I said before good luck.....