To just being on this site you are opening up a parts of your life to others sometimes without you even realising it , to ask for and sharing knowledge or experience of a subject that can affect relationships sometimes has to be a bit personal but i am sure that we all have the respect to understand this and that anyone coming here for any type of help will understand this and that the SOs of partners who are looking for help will also understand this as it is done to make life more happier and not to belittle anyone . you have to admire anyone who looks for knowledge so that they can help someone else who is struggling in life with something .