What is just so incredibly obnoxious about this discussion is the following..
The people that are howling are the people that have not had surgery..don't want surgery, or want some partial surgery and are trying to justify their decisions...they ask questions and make assertions
and when women come here and say , well i had the surgery, and here's what it did for me, i am living full time in gender conformity for the first time, and here's what its like
they get treated like monty python arguement clinic..."no you didnt"....
its bs... maybe everyone that had surgery should leave
if you are transsexual you will benefit from srs surgery, it is a proven state of the art procedure that has fundamentally changed 1000's and 1000's of lives.. it has been described in detail from a physical and emotional level almost universally as a wonderful thing by people that had the surgery (barring complications)... if you are too old, too mentally unstable, too poor or too sick you may not get be able to get this surgery...but it doesnt mean you arent a transsexual or a woman (however you like to id yourself)..
I really feel sorry for you if you are making excuses and roadblocks for yourself...i have been there..that's what drives me to post my experience..
analyzing yourself and dealing with all that inner crap IS the problem...if you'd rather make up excuses why you don't want the buzzing to go away, that's fine, but what do you gain by arguing with me about what i actually experienced?
