And for the record, my indignation wasn't at being told that I'm not T.S., but rather for being told that I should go make money as a *******. I liken the offensiveness in that to telling an african american to go find a job as a slave, and that's why I was upset.
Honest questions deserve honest answers, even if they are voices of disagreement. But at no time is suggesting that I sell my body for the sexual gratification of others acceptable.