That's cool... to each their own. Some transexuals and transgenders do get into porn. Who knows... I may have to go make money as a "*******" for a while to pay bills while people don't hire me because I'm transexual.
It's not up to you to decide what's important. This is a public forum. She is entitled to speak her mind just like you are, so it precisely IS her place. Just like it is your place to come here and tell me I shouldn't use labels.
If you don't agree with what someone says, don't listen to them.