Shocker, RD nailed it again. Men objectify women, that's not news but men objectify everything so a hot looking CD is no different than a hot looking motorcycle or whatever. Every guy that had ever been interested in me has been under no illusions that I was a GG. They knew, they just didn't care and I'm waaaaaaaay more passable than the average CD for sure. How is a part time CD going to pass up close? Believe me ladies, they know.

Momarie is not denying bisexuality, she's just pointing out the silliness of a closet queen trying to justify her attraction to men. It's the chorus of the "I'm straight except" crowd. They label themselves (straight) and then whine about being labeled when someone points out that they may not be straight. The truth is, nobody cares if you swing both ways. I feel like we owe it to each other to call BS on bogus justifications because it's not cool to let somebody you care about just continue to fool themselves. We should always be working towards open honesty or what's the point of the forum?

This forum is overwhelmingly closeted and conservative as far as I can tell and that's not the best combo for openness and self acceptance, but that doesn't mean it's any less important.