[QUOTE=JiveTurkeyOnRye;2758266]What judgmental, blanket statements from both of you. I too get my eyebrows arched at the "only want to be with men while dressed" argument, I think there's some denial or compartmentalizing happening there possibly. However, to dismiss someone calling themselves bi or bi-curious as candy-coating it, or completely dismissing them with blanket statements that they are gay, is frankly so limited a mindset that I can't believe I just stumbled upon it here in a forum for transgendered issues where we should all be a little above that.
Please listen...
I am just saying whatever you are, own it.
When one isn't honest with themselves, it is harmful to them and sometimes hurtful to others.
I don't care who is what and I doubt anyone else does either.
If you're attracted to men, so what?
Have fun and enjoy it, give yourself permission to be who and exactly what you are.
P.S.
"What judgmental, blanket statements from both of you"
I don't think I deserved that.
