I said I'm not trans at one point too.
Through the process of breaking out of years of suppression, and being exposed to who you really are is a very confusing and scary process.
You can't take something she said when she was scared and confused and assume she meant, or even knew what she was talking about.
Your head might be a little up there, but that's because you really have no idea what she is going through. You can't understand it because you haven't lived with it. This kind of stuff happens all the time from family or friends that don't understand and are scared of someone saying they're transsexual. They look to their past and try to find every clue that would prove they're not trans.
Instead of playing history detective, try listening to what she has to say now.
And also, she's 22 years old. Show a little respect... if you want to know what's going on with her, talk to her. Don't go digging through her life behind her back.
