Quote Originally Posted by *Vanessa* View Post
I wonder if there is more behind your thoughts then asking about hers? I'm asking if this might be more about you then her or even about how you should support her life choices. Most here have read her post, but does she know you are TG? Maybe this is the base of your issue? I'm just asking questions 'tis all.
She does know that I am a crossdresser. I don't want to touch the "definition of a TG" issue with a 10 foot pole.

I am not sure if that is all you are asking. This whole experience has led me to think a lot about gender, and how abstract the concept seems to have become. I even started a thread on the crossdressing section called "What is Gender?" in which I confess to not being sure anymore. It is no longer connected to the physical body, but it can't be just socialization, which, after all, can be overcome. It's "between your ears" but not just "all in your head"!

Liz