
 Originally Posted by 
danielle.cd
					 
				 
				seriosly . come on   at the alter u didnt him and haw about the future and if u would be getting divorced some day or not .  dont make it that hard for her or yourself ,  noone one knows anything about what the future holds you may get hit by a car or truck tomorrow .  , ive been here since 2007 and if feels like yesterday and in some of my other post i say i want to have this and that done soon .   now look five years later and wow nothing but my outlook has changed with the exeption of laser treatment , so with your girls growing up money issues and other things that pop up, be realistic and choose what u want, sounds to me like u just want a back up plan in case u choose wrong, well sorry cant have your cake and eat it too , if u can live with your rules now as they are do it,  and if later on down the road it changes for u hay maybe u both will have a better understanding of who u both are an what your life is really about.   ps if u want that  movie pm me so i can send it too u