Quote Originally Posted by danielle.cd View Post
seriosly . come on at the alter u didnt him and haw about the future and if u would be getting divorced some day or not . dont make it that hard for her or yourself , noone one knows anything about what the future holds you may get hit by a car or truck tomorrow . , ive been here since 2007 and if feels like yesterday and in some of my other post i say i want to have this and that done soon . now look five years later and wow nothing but my outlook has changed with the exeption of laser treatment , so with your girls growing up money issues and other things that pop up, be realistic and choose what u want, sounds to me like u just want a back up plan in case u choose wrong, well sorry cant have your cake and eat it too , if u can live with your rules now as they are do it, and if later on down the road it changes for u hay maybe u both will have a better understanding of who u both are an what your life is really about. ps if u want that movie pm me so i can send it too u
You are absolutely right, I could be hit by a car, the Yellowstone Super Volcano could blow and kill us all, Mrs G could've left me for a circus performer, or any number of things. Nobody knows. I wasn't getting at a broad term "you never know" as much as a more pointed "I don't know where the road ends until I walk a bit further." I have no idea. I am horrible at making decisions about little things like what to wear and where to get lunch. Making decisions that I have to live with for the rest of my life, especially without 100% of the information, is incredibly difficult for me. I am wrong a lot, and would hate to be 10 years into it and realize that I made the wrong decision. Then I have regret and am unhappy and depressed. Not good.

This is part of the reason I am happy I am going to be able to see a gender therapist/marriage counselor. We need to get this figured out no matter the circumstances. I am out of ideas and I think Mrs G is too. We've gotten quite a few good ideas from all of you, and the more ideas (good or bad) the better.

Only time will tell.