My husband used to think he was a "lesbian trapped in a man's body" when he was first going through "pink fog". Fast forward to six years later and he no longer thinks that. Your husband's thoughts/views may change on that after he's had some time to experiment and educate himself on all this. I like Reine's suggestion for him to live like a woman, doing EVERYDAY things a woman does, to see what he and how he feels doing it.