Sorry for such a delayed response to our thread, I needed a couple of days to clear my head and talk with my SO. Wednesday we have our first therapy session. In the past few days we have had quite a few long, very difficult talks. I think we both hoped to have been able to find a middle ground by now. The tension between us gets stronger and stronger. We have both been walking on eggshells. I am trying to be comfortable and supportive of finding some time for Sierra to be able to dress. This is particularly hard and uncomfortable for me but I know he needs to be able to have some expression of himself. I still am not ready for it to be to frequent yet but I am trying to work on it. He has begun shaving his chest and stomach, and would love to shave more but knows I am uncomfortable with such. It is a constant reminder already to feel the stubble on his chest. I have been looking to post in other areas to be able to complete my 10 required posts to join FAB. I am afraid however that my SO and I's situation makes me a little Jaded in answering any other thread. Thank you all for your concern and continued support of both of us.
