This thread PRESUMED you are transsexual..and asked an interesting question...
and people gave thoughtful caring answers...positive answers...
and then people got on the soapbox about transsexuals and how somehow "we have all the answers, and we don't understand"...blah blah....it came from nowhere...followed by "you tell em's".....
WTF
It's just a fact of life that people end up at different places...folks that have transitioned KNOW what is given up...folks that haven't dont... this is a permanent forever conflict..the gap is gonna be there.
People that transition will doubt people that dont...they just will..and people that don't will look at transitioners with a mix of feelings that apparently includes envy..
Its especially silly to go on about how someone that transitioned feels better than you...frankly when i read stories about how people stuck it out with their families, or stuck it out for a job, it makes me feel inadequate that i couldn't make it ..
i got divorced, i lost my job...what a loser... i guess i should just keep my mouth shut around all you people that can hold off transition better than i could...sounds kind of ridiculous, no??
