I just want to remind people that this Transsexual section is open to all to post in, no matter if they are transsexual or not. It would be, however, a great help if a non-transsexual understands what section this is before they choose to post an opinion -- you run a good chance of posting irrelevantly and confusingly to others. Transsexuals and crossdressers are different, but I hope everyone understands that one is no better than another -- we are simply distinct in sometimes similar sometimes not ways.
If transsexuals want only other transsexuals to respond to a thread, I suggest you apply to join the Safe Haven private group if you have not already done so. In the meantime, I am determinedly weary of accusations of elitism being tossed back and forth among the membership.