"Part-time transgendered" doesn't make sense. Part-time dresser does, if appropriate.
Miranda, not all of us hide in the closet out of fear. Perhaps there are some who would live openly or full-time if they could, but can't for a variety of good reasons. And some others of us don't run back to the shelter of our normal male lives, we live there (and like it) but occasionally come out to enjoy a little girl time for our own personal reasons. As someone who enjoys the occasional dressup session in private, nobody can give me a good reason how coming out can benefit ME.
Reine, those five friends, they were Tea-girls, right?