Some others have said it that I agree with - I to think it really comes down differences - a ts woman living full time, or who is transitioned and living a normal life as a woman, have a whole different deal going on then someone who identifies as a crossdresser or lives part time.

Sometimes I think is comes across as people acting more superior, but it is not really meant to be most of the time. It is just that the groups have different experiences and perspectives.

However, I believe it is those who cannot be full-time that need the most help.
I am curious as to what type of help you think they need from those living full time?