Shan, what you wrote makes sense to me and probably to a lot of others, however for some it's different. Just look at the Craigslist ads for "men for men" or "casual encounters" sections on there. They meet in their cars during lunch or at a hotel after work or at the gym in the evenings...it seems a lot of places and times, they make time or just have fantasies sitting behind their computers making up ads all day/night. I'm not sure which one, but there are a lot of ads out there for "discreet" hookups.
