Gee, maybe it's because most women are heterosexual, and they want their men to look, feel like, and want to be men. They don't want their men emulating females.
Kinda obvious, don't you think?
Yes this was the point I was going to make. Turn this around and think "why do guys hate women who dress like like men?" Because they want their woman to look like woman and not a man.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.