I don't know if frustrated is the word...I think saddened or disappointed might describe how I would feel if my wife couldn't accept me in my entirety. I know that it's a strongly held emotion, value or belief we are talking about...but values and beliefs, reactions and emotions can change. All to often, with all due respect to those in DADT relationships, accepting and dealing with reality seems to less important than preserving cherished, but erroneous beliefs.
