Hi DoorMat... your H is being a selfish insensitive pig. You are right to feel angry and resentful over this. You didn't sign up for this when you got married did you? I'm continually amazed at the entitled attitude that a lot of the girls display here but really, if you get married without telling your SO about your crossdresing, you're not entitled to anything, except divorce. A lot of girls expect you to understand and accept their crossdressing, but don't put in a similar effort in understanding and accepting YOUR feelings. There is a huge difference between acceptance of crossdressing and participation in it, I can't believe people are stupid enough to link them together. Your H needs to get that through his thick skull, be thankful that he has DADT, and not push his luck anymore.
And newsflash to crossdressers: heterosexual woman are not interested in you! If you want a GG to dress up with find a bisexual one and make sure you tell her BEFORE you start the relationship. It's just good manners really.
