The first question that jumps out at me, Bob, is why r u married? Or, why r u staying married? A marriage without sex isn't a marriage in my book! Yet, u never mention considering separating, much less divorce! Beyond that, your post is like a bag of cats!
No way I would give u advice. Or, can even understand what you're going thru. Doesn't sound like dressing is one of your problems, tho.
My ex is bi. Found a girlfriend on the side without me knowing. However, when our sex life died, I knew we had serious problems! Therapy helped until my ex walked out of our last session. I never considered staying married to someone who had given up on us and live in a sexless marriage. We have 2 kids. Our splitting up was BETTER for them! This was all before I began seriously dressing. But, like u mentioned, me wearing a dress wouldn't have satisfied my ex's needs!
Have u considering separating?
