I need info.

[Kathryn Martin]

Dear Kathryn Martin. Maybe, just maybe, I suffer from the same medical condition.

I doubt that very much given that it was your first post here and your "question" was incredibly specific and very telling. I have been accused of not "liking" your question and that was the reason my comment was deleted. To be truthful, I thought your question reveals much (notwithstanding any backtracking afterwards) and what's not to like about it.

Maybe, just maybe, I'm so uninformed about all this that although I now see I worded my question wrong, I came here looking for some answers

To claim you asked the question: " I just wanna keep my male libido and be a man in a womans [sic] body, why don't they let guys get the surgery without taking hormones first? wrong because you are uninformed fails to address how you could have asked this question any different. You want to keep your male libido while making yourself sexually available with a female body. You ask why guys can't get a female body without losing aggressive male sexual behavior.

and maybe, just maybe, I'm afraid of the negative side-effects of hormone therapy and wonder what good it does.

Oh I gathered that because it would lose you your male libido (your words not mine)

Look, I sincerely don't mean to make ANYONE sick or degrade ANYONE.

I am absolutely sure that this was not your intention. But sometimes being thoughtless has the same effect

I'm just a kind and loving person who is tolerant and loving to even a person like yourself. I can't make anyone sick unless they are sick to begin with. Believe it or not but I love you and wish only the best for you but it is wrong to attack someone as you just did myself. You hurt my feelings.

You see, I can not claim not have intended what I did. I intended to express my views as clearly as possible. I do not buy your story that this is all a question of being ignorant, being "new" to this, not having done your research. If you crossdressed all of your life as you claim then being uninformed is not really something that can be claimed. As a result of all of this amazing "acceptance" from the various posters here you will now change your narrative to adapt to the transgender paradigm and before we all know it you will make wild claims about your medical status. You will be healed from ignorance and all will be forgotten because you then comply with generally accepted transgender principles. Good luck with that

Oh, and you and I will never be the same .....