First of all, thank you to all who have given me advise thus far...I couldn't have gotten this far without all of you!

Okay so for the last couple of days/nights things have started to decline. After my shopping trip (which I had a breakdown in the middle of ) I've noticed that a few things have changed for the worst.

1. He won't have sex now unless he's dressed up.
2. He's started a "relatioinship" with someone he's met on Craigslist and they exchange photos. He's told this person all about me and how supportive I am and this other person just knows that his LTG won't even begin to understand his CDing so he's hiding it from her, but he wants to meet me and my SO soon.
3. My SO wanted me to wax him, and when I started on his legs (we've only gotten thru the front of them so far, we are continuing with the backs tonight). When I started the first few strips were fine for him but after awhile he was calling me a Bitch because he said I was making it hurt on purpose. I Wasn't, it's just what happens when you wax something. That hurt my feelings and I told him so, and that is why we stopped waxing.
4. After suggesting that this weekend we go out to dinner (with him dressed) he was all for that and then he said he needed something, and I said that I didn't have it, that he should go out and just buy it (I think it was a jacket), he said no, he wanted me to do it. I told him no, that I didn't have time and if he wanted it then he needed to get it. He got all upset and said that I "wasn't okay with this, and why was I lying?" I explained that I had a very busy day and he could go shopping just as easily as I could.
5. It seems like when ever we are talking now, it is only about CDing and nothing else. I told him that we needed to set up some ground rules about when to and not to talk about CDing, and he got all upset and said that now I'm trying to control him and not let him talk about this when he wants to. That's not fair, I told him that I have feelings and that I matter as well (like I've been told by you wonderful ladies), and he's all upset because I'm trying to "take care of me and my feelings also".

Help please, I don't know what to do and I am still okay with this. It's who he is and I love him...ALL of him!

Curious (aka Confused) Wife