Hi. You clearly do love her but the question you need to ask yourself is does she love you?
If she did she wouldn't be doing this to you. She'd be supporting you and doing what she can to make you happy. Putting conditions on your life is not how you go about making someone happy. Are you happy? We know the answer to that one...
Being transsexual is one of the hardest things to deal with and it needs not just courage by those afflicted but also a lot of compassion and understanding by those close to us. I hope your wife will come to realise this and change her attitude. In the meantime only you know how best to handle this and I wish you well.





