It sounds like a horrible night Lynn, and I;m sorry that you had to experience that. Perhaps when the time is right you should tell your wife exactly what you told us in your last post? I know my last post was harsh, I wrote it because I am scared for where you might be a week, a month, two months from now. Please take care
Love,
Mary
ps- I know thinking about your wife telling you about how she dealt with her ex is very painful right now because it is concrete evidence of where your relationship is, but truly it is a blessing that you know this info. You have to know the situation in order to change it for the better honey.