Compromises to save a mariage

[Lynnmorgan451]

at this point I suggest that you invite her to join this forum, join FAB, and talk to other GGs who are in her shoes. Honestly this will be immensely more helpful that what the two of you are doing right now

She's not interested in joining. I've asked her and kinda explained why I think it would help but its a ridiculous idea in her mind and embarrassing. She refuses to spend any time learning about my issues, which I know she's a busy one with the kids and to a point understandable. But still, she wont even really listen when I try to talk about my feelings and such and when she does, she doesn't take me seriously. This whole thing is a big embarrassing joke to her. I think..Honestly I don't even know what she thinks of me anymore. An obstacle between her and happiness is probably accurate enough.

This is really starting to sound to me like she's drawing you into some degree of co-dependency. If so, it won't matter what you do you will never satisfy her........ I really think she needs more help than you do to be honest

I totally agree with both of these statements. I think she's setting me up to whack me out of the court. And as much as I love her and as long as I've known her------> Hell ya she's crazy! <------ but so am I....