I see all of your points. I am taking it day by day, or trying to at least. I can't transition now anyway, since there are no laws protecting my job. But, I do agree it wouldn't be wise to have another child until we figured out where our relationship is going. We have already planned on reevaluating our relationship come January, as that is when we plan on trying again.
Of course, there are other problems in our marriage besides me. I guess we'll just see what happens
