Well, I agree with that. I don't want to be shelling out twice as much child support ... The really difficult thing is, at least with my experience, I'm always the bad guy . Her parents say they understand what I'm going through, but don't give any slack because I married her and had a kid, all while knowing about these issues. However, a defense I use that doesn't work was that I had acknowledged theses issues before, years ago (though not to the same extent) and my wife swept them under the rug (we were dating then) . I realize I lied, but I get no slack.
I'm just at a loss. I know the reality of what is probably going to happen. In the meantime, I figure I should enjoy what's going on, keep communicating to her that my need to transition still exists, and let her decide what to do. But yes, I think not having another child is a good idea.
