Quote Originally Posted by Isha View Post
For CDers (whose SOs know): Do you expect your SO to accept you as a woman in all things you do when dressed? Specifically, do you want to be her GF vice her husband even though that may make her uncomfortable. I always remember that I am a guy and even when dressed around the house. My wife and I interact as if I am a guy. I may change my mannerisms to fit the femme presentation but our interaction is "boy/girl". As far as the marital bed goes . . . only one lady there . . . my lovely wife.
Isha, I fall into the TG category, but I am not full-time as I am trying to work out how to keep my marriage together. My wife does not me to consider her to be a lesbian, so I do my best to hide the changes being made to my body. As I can no longer get an erection, we have made changes in bed. Where I would wear lingerie when I considered myself to be a CD, now as a TG, I no longer wear lingerie while make love in bed. (Please, I am not trying to start a political fight!)

My wife misses the man I was even when I dressed and now as TG I cannot go back. We are walking a tightrope; NO make that a slack line.
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