Quote Originally Posted by Tinkerbell-GG View Post
... I'd sit down with my son and gently ask why he was dressing as he was.
I hope you are prepared for "I don't know" answers. I still don't know, not really, and I've had a l-o-n-g time to seek those answers. Still curious, but still don't know, not really.
I was caught playing with lipstick as a child and punished by my dad - he spanked me while verbally humiliating me - and never asked WHY I did it. Of course, my answer would have been "I don't know".
But if you could get some kind of answer you would be better able to advise/assist/guide etc. Dressing to satisfy a strong internal feminine identity is a completely different animal than dressing for sexual excitement. I don't know if I could have confided to my mother that I found crossdressing sexually exciting. We're pretty good at building walls.