I know he may never quit. I can accept that he dresses so long as he communicates with me.
I don't want to force him to quit, I know that won't work. However if he wants to quit I don't want to force him to keep dressing. He's very secretive and embarrassed by it.
I also know that right now I don't want to participate. If he came to me and told me he didn't want to stop I would try to accept it more and would try to get to the point that I could participate, but now isn't that time.
Thank you!! I have felt very alone. And I am so glad to hear of other couples that are functional.
