Why so many more MTF, than FTM dressers, and TS?

[flatlander_48]

Could your words stem from a guilty conscience?

The exodus would have to have happened since July, 2013 in the context of the forum.

You want to know why there aren't more FtMs on this site...check the boards. What do YOU have to offer them? Maybe they have their ducks in a row and don't give a darn about new shoes or panties or sneaking out to feel how it feels to be a guy. Maybe they are just trying to survive

Sorry, Apples and Oranges...

Just because the hate speech occasionally contained an element of part truth did not make it any less hurtful for the FtM members. In the same way that your insult towards the FtM is hurtful to any remaining members. It does not become any less insulting merely because in your not so humble opinion there was an element of truth in the hatred spewed by others against them

That was NOT an insult. It was a reflection of the perceptions in the general populace and is a statement of fact. I didn't create them and I certainly do not try to perpetuate them. But, regardless of what I said, that does NOT make it any less true.

As a bisexual, I have often heard that we are in perpetual stealth mode as we don't appear any different from anyone else. True. If we wanted to back up from same-sex intimacy, we can always go back to being regular heterosexual people. That is also true. While I'm fairly certain that the opinion is more widespread than the reality, clearly it can and does happen. I cannot change the reality just because I don't like the statement. That's like Revisionist History.

DeeAnn