Eryn your broad generalizations simply do not hold water...
you color everyone with your broad brush and its you that is a big part of the problem.
here's what makes me laugh..
here some of us are, talking about how hard it was to make our way as women, sharing stories, jobs issues, marriage issues, shame issues, money issues....
and you are here talking about how you don't want to hear it... but you want to talk about how hard it is to feel comfortable posting on a message board forum about it....
its literally hilarious
