I guess I hit the jackpot with my wife. Her youngest brother is gay, she has another sibling who is MTF transgender, and one of her best friends is a gay makeup artist. These days she loves to help me shop.
My advice would be, before you start really dating a girl, get to know something about her family and friends, and chances are, you will find someone liberal enough to at least tolerate, and hopefully appreciate your "kink."
