That's great to hear and I hope your male friend will have an open mind and won't feel left out during your future visits. I also came out to a real close long time friend and I found that if you leave the sex organs and clothes out of it and mostly keep to the fact of Pure Happiness and no more depression and the science of it all men get it better? My thoughts are most real men think about the organs and what your going to do with them now? An you tell them that it is not a sexual thing and hold to the endocrine system part and brain they understand better.

Now that just my views,, You gotta tip toe with this subject and not push it real hard and fast and like you said just dress neutral around them for a long while so it doesn't threaten them. Maybe that shows them there is more than clothes and sex to this and that's what people need to understand?