Reine, I really like your no nonsense thinking on all this.
Oh if it were that simple. I have been rebuked from people here and elsewhere because I am not a GG(Genetic Girl) or RG(Real Girl) or cis(which I am not by definition), or may not be a TS. The last one is funny, why would any one identify as a 65 year old fat Post-Op TS. To many we are not real women, I guess we are fake women, even in TG friendly websites. How many here have had genetic testing to affirm a GG status. I have chatted with and met some inter-sexed people, including an XY woman. My best compliment comes from a women I chat with who likes to use Regular Woman for herself and accepts me very much as same. She very much likes men who dress, and will CD as a male some. I respond to many of the younger that I have been physically a woman longer, 38.5 years, than they have been alive.
Allie
There are websites that have TG/CDs and some women. They always want a GG or another CD. At this time in my life I would welcome a TG/CD as an intimate friend and more. I never had much luck being romantic with non-trans str8 men, most men just want a woman for their own sexual pleasures.
Gendermutt
Yes we tend to warp our world around us. Have a FtM friend that said he always thought he was a Lesbian. Now he has had top surgery and taking T. So I kid him, guess that makes him str8 now that he still prefers female partners.
To Lorileah and others. If you want to get totally confused check out a movie called "predestination". Plenty of gender/sex confusion, and turns the whole idea of that song on its head, as it was playing in parts of the movie. Some time travel involved to make it happen. My brother and I argued the finer points of time travel paradoxes and the whole gender/sex implications.
I guess I seem bitter now at times, as I have had 40 years of all this and it seems like we still want to argue all this. We just keep inventing more terms to describe all of this.