It's common to want to be the hot chick, or want to be a pleasingly feminine woman we see on the street. I think this just might be the litmus test for transsexualism -- I don't want to be a woman, I want to be THOSE women. For those of us who desire to be just like our ideal women, are we deluding ourselves? Are we objectifying and/or idolizing those women? Maybe our normal male sexual desire became inter-weaved with women's clothes, i.e., we wear them, we're "almost" those women. A neurosis, not just a fetish? I wonder.
