Quote Originally Posted by Bonnie Chan View Post
1. Does anyone here, mainly people who's born and lived as male, ever have a situation where you want to say or express your feeling like "I feel like a woman", for example when dressed up? If so, what do you actually mean?
It means that I'm experiencing something, which I believe is in a similar way to how a woman would experience it. I know that it's probably inexact; there may be subtle, or major differences. But I am convinced that those differences are not necessarily the major part of that experience.

For example: When we wear the clothes, we feel the ways that women's clothing is different from mens. It fits differently, the material is often different, and it moves differently on the body. Jewelry too; we feel and see it, and that is usually within the same experience that a woman has with the same objects. But there will still be differences in the overall experience, such as the value a woman may have for certain items which may have been given to her by a boyfriend or husband, and so those objects have a different meaning to her, than things we buy for ourselves. Women have more emotional attachments to their belongings, different meanings they wish to express by what they wear, that most men simply don't feel. Consider the turmoil of picking out an outfit. I assure you, we don't go through anything remotely close to what a woman does when she does that. Every single little thing has a special meaning to her overall 'look' (this does not include times when doing chores or simple things). Not to mention, the need not to be seen in the same outfit again, which most men have no idea why anyone would have a problem with that. Then there is the value. Why is wearing a diamond different from wearing a CZ? after all, they look identical. But I guarantee you, women 'feel' that it's 'just different', as they say.

Lots of stuff like that.