I am not sure but I think (and agree) what Sandra and Reine are saying. It is like when someone has a tragedy and some one trying to console them says I know how you feel. NO, you will never know how they feel! Women are women and men are men and this is more hormonal and how individual brains are wired. We are not in their skin. We can think we feel the way they feel but it is not the same. It is all individual whether women or men. Meaning no disrespect to anyone. Hugs Lana Mae